I turned 40 last month! Last year around my birthday I published a list of life truths that I had learned (mostly the hard way). Over the past year, I’ve taken note of a few more (starting with #20). Here’s my updated list: Here’s to learning more lessons at 40!
Over the summer, one of our neighbors put out a dog bowl and a sign that read something along the lines of: Water bowl for dogs!Refilled at 7am, noon, and 5pm! There was another doggy watering hole in the neighborhood, but it was quite a bit farther away than this…
Well, friends, we did it. It can be tempting to jump right in to setting goals and making plans for 2025, but I truly believe that taking the time to reflect on the year prior is so important. For me, reflecting on last year’s accomplishments can give me a boost…
Holiday shopping is in full swing! Since I put way more stock in personal recommendations (and Wirecutter reviews) than pay-to-play gift guides, I want to share a list of things that I actually use and love in case you see something that might work for whoever’s on your list. Home…
The 4-hour, 270-mile drive from Durham to Sylva has two acts. Act I, from Durham to our lunch and bathroom stop in Hickory, is fast-paced, heavily-trafficked, and goes through Greensboro, Winston-Salem, and Statesville. The mountains come into view soon after Act II begins and quickly becomes a beautiful drive through the mountains….
A few years ago, my late father-in-law, Jim, started doing something new. Whenever he would introduce me—to his friends, neighbors, the front desk and maintenance people at his and my mother-in-law’s apartment on the Jersey shore—he would introduce me as his daughter. At first, I would correct him, adding “in…
I found the photo above the other day. From left to right, we have “Brother” John (family by choice), my maternal grandmother (AKA Bomma), that’s me in the middle, my great uncle Johnny (Bomma’s brother), and Johnny’s wife, Lyn. We’re in Yosemite National Park on a day trip from Fresno,…
It seems like everyone’s getting laid off right now. Last year and the year before, too. I’ve been laid off before. Early in my career, most of my roles were grant-funded, and that was just part of the gig. If the grant got renewed or a new one came in…
Even though my neighborhood doesn’t have sidewalks, it’s very pedestrian-friendly and I go for lots of walks. When I’m out, there are always others out and about doing the same by themselves, in groups, with dogs (and dog-like cats) and/or children in tow, at fast paces, at slow paces, birdwatching,…
Over the last year or so, I’ve been jotting down life truths I’ve learned—many the hard way—in an email draft as I’ve thought of them. Since my 39th birthday (actual 39th, not “39th”) is fast approaching, I figured I’d share what I’ve collected so far. It’d be awesome if my…
